Diana was born in 1961 as the third daughter of Edward
John Spencer and his wife Frances Ruth Burke Roche. Diana grew up in a very
privileged family that had a long history of close ties with the royal family. When
Diana's paternal grandfather passed away in 1975, Diana's father became the 8th
Earl of Spencer and Diana gained the title of "Lady."
In 1969, Diana's parents divorced. Her mother's affair
helped the court decide to give custody of the couple's four children to
Diana's father. Both of her parents eventually remarried, but the divorce left
an emotional scar on Diana.
Diana attended school at West Heath in Kent and then
spent a short time at a finishing school in Switzerland. Although she was not
an excellent student academically, her determined personality, caring nature,
and cheerful outlook helped her through it. After returning from Switzerland,
Diana rented an apartment with two friends, worked with children at the Young
England Kindergarten, and watched movies and visited restaurants in her free
time.
It was about this time that Prince Charles, in his
early 30s, was under increasing pressure to choose a wife. Diana's vibrancy,
cheerfulness, and good family background caught the attention of Prince Charles
and the two began dating in mid-1980. It was a whirlwind romance for on
February 24, 1981, Buckingham Palace officially announced the couple's
engagement. At the time, Lady Diana and Prince Charles seemed truly in love and
the whole world was awed by what seemed like a fairytale romance.
It was the wedding of the decade; nearly 3,500 people
attended and approximately 750 million people from around the world watched it
on television. To the envy of young women everywhere, Lady Diana married Prince
Charles on July 29, 1981 at St. Paul's Cathedral.
Less than a year after the wedding, Diana gave birth
to William Arthur Philip Louis on June 21, 1982. Two years after William was
born, Diana gave birth to Henry ("Harry") Charles Albert David on
September 15, 1984.
While Diana quickly gained the love and appreciation
of the public, there were definitely problems in her marriage by the time
Prince Harry was born.
The stresses of Diana's numerous new roles (including
wife, mother, and princess) were overwhelming. These pressures plus the extreme
media coverage and post-natal depression, left Diana lonely and depressed.
Although she tried to maintain a positive public
persona, at home she was crying out for help. Diana suffered from bulimia, cut
herself on her arms and legs, and made several suicide attempts.
Prince Charles, who was jealous of Diana's extra media
attention and unprepared to handle her depression and self-destructive
behavior, quickly started to drift away from her. This led Diana to spend the mid-
to late-1980s, unhappy, lonely, and depressed.
During these lonely years, Diana tried to find a place
for herself. She had become what many describe as the most photographed woman
in the world. The public loved her, which meant that the media followed her
everywhere she went and commented on everything she wore, said, or did.
Diana found that her presence comforted many who were
sick or dying. She dedicated herself to a number of causes, most especially to
the elimination of AIDS and landmines. In 1987, when Diana became the first
famous person to be photographed touching someone with AIDS, she made a huge
impact in dissolving the myth that AIDS could be contracted merely by touch.
In December 1992, a formal separation was announced
between Diana and Charles and in 1996, a divorce was agreed to which was
finalized on August 28. In the settlement, Diana was given $28 million, plus
$600,000 per year but she was to give up the title, "Her Royal
Highness."
Diana's hard-won freedom did not last long. On August
31, 1997, Diana was riding in a Mercedes with her boyfriend (Dodi Al Fayed),
bodyguard, and chauffer when the car crashed into a pillar of the tunnel under
the Pont de l'Alma bridge in Paris while fleeing from paparazzi. Diana, age 36,
died on the operating table at the hospital. Her tragic death shocked the
world.
Initially, the public blamed the paparazzi for the
accident. However, further investigation proved that the primary cause of the
accident was that the chauffer had been driving under the influence of both
drugs and alcohol.
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